Be compassionate and appreciative. Fulfill your responsibilities and allow him to fulfill his. Disputes in marriage are natural, resolve it respectfully.
When Ramadan comes, the door of mercy opens, the door of fire shuts and the devils are jailed.1 When Ramadan enters the door of heaven...
Oh those who believe! Fasting has been made compulsory upon you, as it had been made compulsory on those before you, so that you may become fearful... So those of you who witness the month, fast within it. Those who are ill or on travel the number will be from other days. Allah intends for you ease, He does not intends for you hardship. Complete the number, exalt Allah at what He has granted you, and perhaps you may become thankful.
Indeed for the fearful there is success - gardens and vineyards, buxom maidens, brimming glasses. You will not hear within babble, nor lies. This is a reward from your lord and an ample gift.
In the first ten days of Dhul Hijjah, say Subhanallah, Alhamidulillah, and Allahu Akbar increasingly. Do your necessary Takbir on the allotted days. If possible, fast on the day of Arafah – there is great reward in this. If eligible, give Qurbani on the day of Eid – this is an obligation to Allah for men and women. The rewards of all deeds are with Allah and his reward in better and everlasting.
عَمَّ يتسآءَلُونَ1 عَنِ النَّبَإِ العَظِيمِ2 الَّذِى هُمۡ فِيهِ مُخْتَلِفُونَ3 كَلَّا سَيَعْلَمُونَ4 ثُمَّ كَلَّا سَيَعْلَمُونَ5
Regarding what do they question each other and the believers in...
Be kind and be merciful. You have rights over her but she also has rights over you; fullfill them. Disputes in marriage is natural, resolve it kindly.